Here's a great example of a conversation that demonstrates a complete lack of decision making power (does any of this look familiar?):
Her: "What do you want to do tonight?"
Him: "I don't know. What do you want to do tonight?"
Her: "I don't really care, it's up to you"
Him: "I'm up for whatever"
Her: "You want to go out to eat?"
Him: "Yeah I guess. I ate something before but we could go eat if you want"
Her: "Well it's stupid to go eat if you're not hungry"
Him "Yeah, I guess your right."
Her: "Well, were you in the mood to go to the movies?"
Him: Okay, what's playing?
Her: "Not sure"
Now what she's really trying to say is, "Be a man damnit!!!! Make a decision - ANY decision. Just make one!” You need to make decisions quickly and stick to them. Even if you make the WRONG decision it's better than making NO decision. The great thing about decisions is that they get easier to make, the more you make them. If you have a hard time making decisions, it's because you have wimpy decision making muscles. The more you make decisions, the bigger and stronger these muscles get.
Go out and practice making decisions. Start with small ones. You'll see what an empowering feeling it is to make decisions with authority and stick to them. We live in a free country. You have the right to make decisions about everything. This is a beautiful thing! Women search for guys who can make decisions quickly and easily. They love it. They love to be guided. I don't care if it's not politically correct to say - it's the truth. Women love when a man makes decisions for them.
