Over the past 100 years or so, men and women have been going through tremendous change. Women are now considered equal to men (a very positive development) and contraceptives are widely used. We are in complete control of our sexuality like no other time in history. However, with all the good that has come about, there is still something missing. Something we can all feel in our hearts but cannot fully understand.

We are missing our sense of masculinity. Slowly, men have been becoming more and more feminine while women have been becoming more and more masculine. Men are becoming more like women while women are becoming more like men. This has all resulted in a dramatic loss of attraction for both sexes.

You see, women are biologically driven to want to mate with the “alpha male”. The man who is a leader, who is decisive, who is in control of his emotions, who is secure in himself. While a man's looks factor into a woman's attraction for him, his behavior is far more important. Men are primarily attracted to a woman's physical appearance while a woman is primarily attracted to a man's behavior. Remember that the next time to tell yourself you can't get a girl because of your looks; it's actually because of the way in which you behave.

This is all pretty good news for us guys though. While physical appearance cannot be changed, our behavior can. Ugly women are basically screwed while ugly men can still very easily attract beautiful women.

So what are the characteristics of an attractive man?

Assertive – He knows what his likes and dislikes are and he's not afraid to voice his opinion. If he's shopping with his girlfriend and she happens to not like the shirt he picked out, he's not going to put it back like a little puppy dog. If he likes it, he's still going to buy it.

Decisive – He can make snap decisions. If his girlfriend asks what they are doing, he knows and has a plan in mind.

Leader – He leads women in everything they do together. He leads during sex, while on a date and any other time they are together. He is the big strong man she turns to.

A lot of guys get this stuff wrong. VERY WRONG.

Demonstrate that you have purpose to your life, lead her to experience new things in her life and don't take drama EVER. If you can effectively implement the above advice and begin taking ACTION, you'll skyrocket your success with women and feel darn good about yourself.

I wish you the best of success and don't forget to have FUN with women. Think PLAYFUL!