Over the past 100 years or so, men and women have been going through tremendous change. Women are now considered equal to men (a very positive development) and contraceptives are widely used. We are in complete control of our sexuality like no other time in history. However, with all the good that has come about, there is still something missing. Something we can all feel in our hearts but cannot fully understand.
We are missing our sense of masculinity. Slowly, men have been becoming more and more feminine while women have been becoming more and more masculine. Men are becoming more like women while women are becoming more like men. This has all resulted in a dramatic loss of attraction for both sexes.
You see, women are biologically driven to want to mate with the “alpha male”. The man who is a leader, who is decisive, who is in control of his emotions, who is secure in himself. While a man's looks factor into a woman's attraction for him, his behavior is far more important. Men are primarily attracted to a woman's physical appearance while a woman is primarily attracted to a man's behavior. Remember that the next time to tell yourself you can't get a girl because of your looks; it's actually because of the way in which you behave.
This is all pretty good news for us guys though. While physical appearance cannot be changed, our behavior can. Ugly women are basically screwed while ugly men can still very easily attract beautiful women.
So what are the characteristics of an attractive man?
Assertive – He knows what his likes and dislikes are and he's not afraid to voice his opinion. If he's shopping with his girlfriend and she happens to not like the shirt he picked out, he's not going to put it back like a little puppy dog. If he likes it, he's still going to buy it.
Decisive – He can make snap decisions. If his girlfriend asks what they are doing, he knows and has a plan in mind.
Leader – He leads women in everything they do together. He leads during sex, while on a date and any other time they are together. He is the big strong man she turns to.
A lot of guys get this stuff wrong. VERY WRONG.
Demonstrate that you have purpose to your life, lead her to experience new things in her life and don't take drama EVER. If you can effectively implement the above advice and begin taking ACTION, you'll skyrocket your success with women and feel darn good about yourself.
I wish you the best of success and don't forget to have FUN with women. Think PLAYFUL!
Why Do Women Love Black Men
A dog is a man's best friend, whereas diamonds are a girl's best friend - notice the difference? Of course, these are just sayings and by all means should not be taken literally. However, for all you women out there who do like your diamond rings then you will know firsthand that there is a difference in quality when maintaining a diamond in comparison to taking care of a dog! For example, most diamonds are hard wearing, do not require petting and do not need to be given a bath every week!
This is not however, about why diamonds are better than dogs but about why women love diamonds so much! A man who puts up with a girlfriend, who likes to go shopping every week, will not know what their fascination towards bags, make-up, jewellery or worse still shoes is based upon. After all how many pairs of shoes does one person need? In addition, why do most women have to have expensive taste in diamond rings?
I am not stereotyping women, being a woman myself; I for one know the importance of keeping ones appearance looking nice and immaculate, which reaches as far back as the ancient Egyptian ages and do include men grooming themselves. Women are unfortunately victims of much scrutiny for the choice in shopping for clothes they may not need and high heels that they cannot walk in. Nothing will compare to the demands that men make upon buying their gadgets, love of football and going out drinking with the lads.
At least the fascination with diamond rings is one that stems from a historical reference point at which would reveal its value and quality. Proposing with a diamond ring is one of the most remarkable gifts you could ever bestow on your loved one, as it has fast become a symbol of exquisite taste, lasting unity and a sign of real appreciation for the other half. As illogical, as it may seem it is true to many people that a diamond ring shows you truly want to marry her.
The first diamond ring to set upon a woman's hand was none other than Mary of Burgundy in 1477. The then Archduke of Austria Maximilian I had bestowed this ring as an engagement for his fiance. This sparked the trend for exquisite and elaborately designed jewellery as a means for proposing and using as wedding bands. The Victorian ages saw women sporting rings with birthstones, floral designs and often-intricate patterns as not everyone could afford diamond rings.
Diamonds first became more regularly available in England during the mid 19th century with many of them coming from Africa. The Roman period had seen the first glimpses of diamond come from India where they were mined, with many of the wealthy people being able to afford a piece or two. What struck people about the diamond was its almost indestructible form, which made a more desirable gem and a useful industrial tool for cutting, polishing and drilling.
Aside from its industrial uses, it is better known for its elegance and sparkling appearance as a piece of jewellery, especially if it is an engagement or wedding ring. The diamond matches well with most metals such as silver, gold (white and yellow) and platinum. No matter how small the diamond is, a good quality genuine cut diamond will always have that extra large sparkle - so women with even a half carat diamond can display their jewel with pride.
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