It IS a myth promoted by men who won't put the effort into finding someone new. There are all sorts of excuses but there is no evidence to back up the claims that all the good ones are gone. Look at all the women who are getting divorced or having affairs - these are all available women. In fact, in the United States alone, there are more than 80 million single women. That line bears repeating, doesn't it? If you can't find ONE woman out of 80 million, perhaps you're doing something wrong.

That's where dating sites like SexyAds.com comes in. Dating sites don't have more than 80 million single women, but they have a helluva lot more than you've got hanging on your arm now. Why is that? Is it because you really can't afford the membership to contact them? Or is it that you're afraid of rejection or a possible ?player? so you resolve to be alone?

I think today is the perfect time for you to decide to do this just for you. Whether you're looking for a playtime partner or a serious relationship with ALL the benefits, there isn't a better time than right now to start the best part of your life with someone new. Why now? There has never been a time when there were more people seeking relationships than right now and never has it been so easy to find someone nearby or from far flung areas of the world. Dig in with both feet and start writing to everyone who interests you. Don't give one thought to whether she writes back or not. Think of it as setting bait like you do when you go fishing. Some bite and some don't and some you get to reel in. You wouldn't get upset with a fish for not stopping to leave you a note to say no thanks, so think of it like this and you'll never get upset.

Imagine what it would feel like right now to have someone special in your life. Someone who cares for you, wants you in every way possible and lights up the room when she walks in. It CAN be yours but you have to make the first step. Most women expect men to make the first contact, so if you're waiting, you've got a long wait for the good ones. Try it, most sites cost less than taking someone to the movie with popcorn and it could result in a magic sexual experience that goes on and on.