It wasn't all that long ago that the very idea of a mature woman dating a much younger man was strictly taboo. Nowadays, cougar dating seems to be very in vogue, even encouraged in some circles.
For some reason or other, the other way around has always been okay. Our society has long accepted men being coots (my word). Oh sure, we make fun of them and can't believe that a woman half a man's age can possibly care anything about him. Maybe, with cougars gaining popularity in the dating scene, we'll have to rethink our preconceived notions of May/December romances.
One of the differences between coots and cougars may be the lack of commitment. While many older men often marry their young girlfriends, cougars are generally not looking for a long term relationship, although sometimes it does happen despite their original intentions. Mostly, they are looking for some fun, both in and out of the bedroom.
Cougars tend to be divorcees, fit, and financially sound. They are irresistible to young men looking for a mature, confident woman to spend time with.
One thing that boy toys (sometimes called cubs) like about their cougars is the fact that they can carry a conversation. Many young men find it frustrating when talking to women their own age, especially because of their tendency to giggle, and express their insecurities.
There are many pluses to cougar dating in addition to the ones already mentioned. Dating a younger man can be exciting. For an older woman to be desired by a good looking, passionate man who previously in history was considered off limits, is down right sexy, and you can bet that there is no Viagra needed. That hard bodied young stud doesn't need it.
For the mature woman not looking to settle down, cougar dating may be ideal. She can enjoy her cub's company, and move on when the relationship has run its course. This can be perfect for the young man, as well, especially if he wants to start a family some day. The couple get to enjoy each other for awhile, and no doubt learn things about a relationship that will help them in future.
If there is one caution about cougar dating, it would have to be to guard your heart. When two people get along well, laugh a lot together, have an amazing sex life, and can communicate openly and honestly with each other, there is the possibility of falling in love. If it happens for you both, that's great. However if not, there will be the heartbreak that is typical of any relationship where one person has more invested emotionally than the other.
So, is it worth it to engage in cougar dating? Women say, "Definitely". Most young men would answer with a resounding, "YES!" Which ones? Come on in and see.
