Have you ever been given a promise ring or plan to give one to someone? Did you know that this is a symbolic gesture of many things including love and affection? If you plan on getting one or have one already, you should remember that it's important to keep that promise.

For instance, did you know that a promise ring is good in cases of pre-engagements? What does this mean usually? It typically means the couple love one another and want to commit but are not ready for a fully-fledged engagement.

The second reason a promise ring may be given is for chastity. Parents are usually givers of this ring type to their child. The child will then keep this close to them as a reminder of the promise they made to their parents about being abstinent. This ring can also be a symbolism to staying drug, tobacco and alcohol free as well. All too often children are faced with difficult decisions about different substances. A promise ring is a great reminder.

Couples who value monogamy, but don't yet want a marriage can exchange promise rings or give promise rings as a way to signify their love and commitment without a piece of legal binding paper.

If you want to signify a lasting friendship, promise rings are the way to go. Promise rings between friends remind them that they always have someone to lean on in hard times.

So which finger should a promise ring go on? Well, for matters of the heart either the left or right ring finger will do for pre-engagements and monogamy. If the ring is to symbolize abstinence, the left ring finger should be where it goes. Eventually, this is to come off and be placed with an engagement and/or wedding ring. For cases of substance abstinence, any finger will do. However, left ring finger is preferable. If a friendship promise ring is being given, then any fingers, thumbs too, are fine.

Women sometimes wonder if it is appropriate to give a man a promise ring? Although not inappropriate, it's generally not done. Would you give a man an engagement ring? Chances are: probably not. However, if you are doing a joint promise on monogamy or want to show the man your complete friendship for life, then a simple promise ring or matching promise rings are just fine.

Remember that a promise ring can signify anything so it's important to give a reason by your giving of a promise ring. If you don't, it's liable someone's feelings can be or will be hurt.