There are a lot of females out there that have been abused by their fathers, uncles or other family members at a young age and I’m not talking just physical abuse but mental as well. And this has a major impact later in their lives trying to trust other males. Who can they trust and how much can they be trusted most females just don’t want to talk about their past as its just too painful for them and cant be pushed into talking about it. Others will give a brief idea that they were abused one way or the other but will not be drawn into giving details like who it was that abused them.

Other females need to have a bit of a trust factor before they even think of going home with a male, as for all they know the people could be a real nasty piece of work when they away from other people and have this single female in their hands or how does she know that this person is not a carrier of a sexual transmitted disease and maybe infect her or that he without her knowledge has sex with her without using a condom, once the lights are out who knows.

If you put a male in the same position as a female I’m not too sure if he could handle it with all the pressure on them in risking their lives to almost a complete stranger they just met at a pub or club and he couldn’t defend himself and it does happen to men but just not heard about as much as it is with females.

So remember if you are out at a club and meet a female and you want to try and score with her and she turns you down, it might not be for the reason you are thinking it might be a whole bigger picture you just don’t know about. If you really interested in this female its might be just a lot easier to give her your phone number and ask her to contact you when she next like to meet up as you don’t want to put pressure on her but you are interested in meeting again, start building that trust factor slowly.

You have to remember that a female wants to have trust in a relationship to be able to talk about anything and know that the male will listen even ask questions on the topic and be prepared it may be anything. She has to know that you are committed as much as she is in the trust factor and not just playing her so you can sleep with her and move on to the next lady you meet.