1) A Quick Self-Analysis. This might seem out of place, but really is the first place to start. Do you still care deeply about your ex? Sometimes that great passion dies somewhere during a relationship and becomes a little too comfortable for real attraction and love to still exist. I would honestly recommend you considering if the breakup isn't actually the healthy thing for both of you. If, however, you still have truly passionate feeling for your ex, you can move onto the next tip to win your ex back.

2) Figure Out Where You Stand With Your Ex. A lot of the times it's very obvious that your ex is suffering from the breakup, even it it was their idea in the first place. Does your ex still love you? If the reason for the breakup was things that can be easily fixed - communication, time management, goal awareness - then you can definitely win your ex back. But sometimes people really just enter a new phase in life where they cannot commit to relationships. If you can feel a real disconnect between the two of you, you should start moving on now.

3) Time To Take Action. If everything is looking good so far, we should get into the next tips to win your ex back. Before be pull out the big guns, you should start thinking back to the time when your ex first fell in love with you. Perhaps you weighed 10 pounds less, had a more positive outlook on life, were spending more time with you own friends or just generally had more of a life of your own. This in itself is a very attractive quality and one that you can easily start getting back right now. You need to go back to the person your ex fell in love with in the first place and then half of the battle is already won.

4) Give Them The Gift Of Missing You. Another one of the great tips to win your ex back is to stop most contact. This one is also one of the most difficult to do, but the effects can be amazing. Don't call, text, mail or generally stalk your ex ever! This is the ultimate display of neediness and neediness is the number one attraction killer in the world. By rather seeming to accept the situation your ex will wonder what you're up to and you become instantly more desirable. This is simple attraction techniques that you should use to your advantage. By not having so much contact you also get time to get your life back on track, spend more time with family and friends, take up old hobbies and other things you always wanted to do.