But before I do that, I'd like to talk about some of the different personality traits that women find most attractive. Some are better when used with others, and some don't work well together. Here is the list with brief descriptions. I'll talk more about combining these later.

?Funny. Humor is just plain powerful with women. If you can keep her laughing, you will go far.

?Intelligent and Creative. Intelligence is sexy IF it's used in a way that's interesting to her. Use your creativity and intelligence to surprise her with ideas, fantasies, and unexpected things that charm her.

?Educated. Education is attractive to women as long as it's used in an interesting way. Some women are actually intimidated by education, which usually works in your favor.

?Classy and Cultured. If you have class, women pick up on it. Do your shoes and belt match? Do you understand interior design and color contrast? Do you know about different types of wine? Do you like foreign movies? Do you understand fashion? Do you like Frank Sinatra? Do you enjoy exotic foods? Do you serve her Hors d'oeuvres and a glass of wine when she visits? Do you open all doors for her? Women notice this stuff BIG TIME.

?Dominant. Women have an unconscious attraction to dominant men. The dominant males in some primate groups account for up to 75% of all the matings, while the less dominant males go without any. Same goes for humans.

?Thoughtful. Women don't just like gifts; they like knowing that you were THINKING of them. The gift is a SYMBOL. Women feel the same amount of good inside whether it's a card or a diamond (of course, the diamond lasts longer, so there are more ?times of feeling good?!). But the fact is that women like to know that you're thinking about them. Even if you're telling a woman that you don't like it that she was out with another guy, she'll like it because it means you were thinking about her!

?Notices Significant Details. Women don't just notice details; they USE them to try to be attractive and attentive. If she is wearing a sexy outfit, she didn't put it on by accident. If her hair is done nicely, it wasn't a fluke. Women are very impressed and attracted to men who notice these details.

?Unpredictable/Predictable. Here's a paradox. Women are drawn to men who they can't control or predict. They obsess over guys who flirt, give them attention, and then don't call the next day. Predictability is only attractive when it comes to choosing a HUSBAND. Then a woman usually wants a man who's VERY predictable.

?Enthusiastic, Fun, Happy. Nothing is a bigger turn-off than a killjoy. Some men get upset and pout when a woman is happy and try to put down the things that she enjoys to sound superior, which is usually a HUGE mistake. Enthusiasm is infectious and attractive.

?Adventurous. Women are instantly attracted to men who like to do extreme, adventurous, unusual, and even dangerous things. It's exciting. Adventurism is sexy.

?Aggressive. Women love men that know what they want and go after it. Passion is a sign of life. I'm not talking about the kind of aggressive that turns into date rape. I'm talking about the kind of aggressive that turns into setting a goal and then going after it with passion and getting it no matter what.

?Confident/Cocky. Women are magnetically attracted to men who are just a little bit too cocky. Just a little bit. This is a tough one to explain. Many men take this to mean ?overly arrogant?, which is not what I mean. If you watch Pierce Brosnan in ?The Thomas Crown Affair?, Clarke Gable in ?Gone With The Wind?, or Tom Cruise in ?Top Gun?, you'll get an idea of what I'm talking about. The confident/cocky trait is mild overconfidence combined with humor. Drives women wild.

On my next post, I will discuss additional personality traits that women find most attractive in men.