Actually, the pick up lines is not only for guys but it can for girls too. The confident, self-assured girl of today does not feel the need to wait for a man to approach him. She can send hints to men to get them interested in her.

In fact, most of the men love it when a girl makes the first move. So, what are you waiting for? Here are the top 5 pick up lines for all the girls who want to break the ice and get starting conversation with a guy that they like:

1. "My necklace has slipped off, can you help me put it on?" or "Can you help with this crossword puzzle answer?" or any other plea for assistance.

Openers asking for help are very good. It's one of the best ways to get a boy to stop walking. By the way, All guys want to feel like a provider. If he can be a hero in your eyes, even for a moment, it'll make his day. And that's sure to ratchet up his interest in you, the one who made him feel that way.

2. "Do I know you from somewhere?"

It's cliche but very effective because by the time you realize that you don't really know each other, you are already in a conversation and have identified a couple things you have in common.

3. "Can I sit with you so I won't get hit on?"

Not only are you asking for help, you're hammering home the fact that you're desirable. Once you've enlisted his services, you've got a captive audience and can even offer him a "thank you" drink without appearing too forward.

4. "That's a cool pocket-watch. Where'd you get it?"

Ask an open-ended question that requires more than a grunt for an answer. Ask an question that makes him get talking and keep the conversation going from there.

5. "So, what are you doing here?"

When you meet at an event where you're bound to know someone in common whether it's a wedding or just a backyard barbecue, you can use the old so-who-do-you-know game to pave the way to a real conversation.

Actually, there are more effective pick up lines for girls to use on guys when they like someone but do not know what to say. By the way, the most important one is that no matter what you say as long as you have confidence to get starting the initial conversation and there seems to be a mutual attraction that you will quickly find yourself sitting down and getting to know him.

Finally, after you approach a guy, make sure he takes over and leads the interaction. If he remains passive and you have to hold his hand to keep the conversation going, he is probably a man who will disappoint you sooner than later. Just pass on him and look for another one! Have a nice try!