How many times have you heard people say that they can't stop eating cookies, or bread, or pasta, or candy? They may even laugh and say they are addicted to chocolate, as they pop the 10th truffle in their mouth. Well it's time we faced the facts. We are addicted to many of the foods we eat. And when you really look at it, it's not so very funny. You might even say, food addiction is a debilitating phenomenon.

Now it may seem extreme to say that food addiction is debilitating. So let's take a look and see what I mean.

It is often said that society favors thin people, and that the model for beauty is skin-and-bones. Now this is probably true and I don't deny it. But you may be a size 14, and you want to be a size 8, and you know this is your ideal size, as well as very achievable. And yet you can't get there because of all the cookies, pasta, and bread you eat, even as you say you don't want to. Then you have a problem. And the problem is that you are fighting food cravings.

At this point you may wonder what it wrong with you. You may wonder why you have no will power. You might try diets and feel your mood swing, as you starve yourself and your blood sugar goes down. You may become irritable and grouchy as you 'white-knuckle it' with your family. Then you might give up and go eat all you want for a few weeks. You then might watch the pounds you lost come back on, with extra pounds as interest. And once again you are bound to feel there is something wrong with you.

Food addiction as it progresses will soon lead to extreme fluctuation in blood sugar due to the overeating of processed carbohydrates. This will cause bouts of lethargy and sleepiness, and irritability. Certainly obesity will set in, or perhaps a person's behavior will become bulimic. Now the journey for the food addict is perilous. It becomes a psychological addiction to stay thin, inside of the physical addiction to eat more. By the end metabolisms are destroyed, diets on longer work, self-esteem in this area has all but disappeared. And the food addicts very life may be in danger.

If you're lucky, at this point you will just continue your cycle of irritability, obesity, and carbohydrate abuse until your body depletes its insulin supply. At this point you will become diabetic and sentence yourself to a shortened life-span, and an old age of pain and misery. If you're not so lucky, you will convince yourself that it is better 'not to eat at all' than to fight the cravings, or to be fat. You will then become anorexic. If this is the case, judging by statistics, you probably won't make it.

And this is the direction in which we are headed, even as we joke about being addicted to chocolates.

Fighting food cravings is no laughing matter for a lot of people. But there are sources of help. There is a program called Overeaters Anonymous, which I attended for many years. There is also a program called Food Addicts Anonymous. Both of these will give you the support of other people on a similar path, as well as their experience strength and hope. You will also need a food plan that deals with food as an addictive substance. And there are many other tools I will give you in subsequent articles. But to those of you who suffer, I will just say, yes you can live a healthy happy life with food addiction. But you need to reach out.