How can I get my ex back? Why is that such an unreasonable question to ask? Depends on who you are asking I suppose. My friends and family would frequently roll their eyes at me whenever I asked that very question and believe me I asked more than once. My question was rarely answered. In fact, I was usually hit with a barrage of unwanted opinions about my ex. Then there was the constant psycho babble and recommendation to "just get over it and move on". I didn't want to move on. I knew without a doubt that I wanted my ex back and was willing to darn near anything to make it happen.

Fortunately I became acquainted with T.W. Jackson (aka T-Dub) and his book, "The Magic of Making Up". I was hesitant at first. Magic rarely gets and/or maintains my interest but I was desperate to hear something different on the subject. From the moment I read the first opening line I thought to myself, "what a breath of fresh air"! Finally I had something tangible to work with. He offered actual strategies to practice so I could quickly see some results. T-Dub doesn't talk you out of desperately wanting to get back together with your ex. He does talk you out of being desperate, however. Also, he doesn't make you feel bad for having such a strong desire to get back together with your ex. Instead he helps you discover the possibilities of not only getting your ex back but also keeping your significant other for the long haul.

T-Dub will be the first to warn you that his methods are unconventional but that is just the very thing that makes his dialogue so refreshing, especially when you have tried everything else. He will be the last person to suggest that you should back off after the break- up or start going out and having fun or even worse recommend that you "just get over it and move on".

Instead T-Dub tells you exactly what to say and do to get your ex back. I don't think anyone among my circle of friends or family suggested such a thing and that is probably because nobody really knows! He offers the fastest and shortest path to getting back together (please note that I didn't say easiest) that I have yet to discover in any other book addressing the issue of breaking up and attempting to getting back together.

I was so grateful to finally get my hands on something that was encouraging. I genuinely felt as though I had someone in my own corner cheering me on rather than bashing my ex and insisting that I put away in hopes of ever getting back together. I knew that I wanted to stop feeling depressed and hopeless. I knew that my ex and I had so much in our relationship that was worth saving that I didn't want to be talked out of making any attempts to salvage it. T-Dub is very supportive in making it possible for you to get back together with your ex and his strategies will do just that for you and your ex!