Are you one of those guys unsure of what to say when around girls? Do you instantly clam up? Perhaps you are one of those guys who used to have skills but somehow lost his mojo along the way? No matter which description defines you, stop stressing for I'm going to teach you the top five things to say and/or do on your date ensuring she is yours tonight. If you practice these tips with confidence, then the girl will be hounding you with phone calls and she will be begging for more.



1. Hold her hand. No matter if the girl is an extrovert or an introvert, a girl melts over this old-fashioned step. Not sure exactly what it is about holding hands, but it works. Let's say for example you are walking ahead of her. Just inch your hand out behind you. If she is feeling you, she will naturally grab your hand into hers. It works every time. For some reason this puts girls in that “this is my man” state of mind setting precedent for the rest of the evening.

2. Tell her you are happy when you two are together. Girls eat this up, but make sure this isn't your first date with her. It may scare her away. However, if you are nearing relationship status, the girl will think it is the sweetest thing in the world. She will blush and gush and most likely go back and tell her girlfriends all about it. This is the result you want. You want her to the point she is eating out of your hand. If you let her know she makes you happy it is a way of informing her how important she is to you. Girls like to be placed in priority position in your life. So this is just one way to express it to her.

3. Tell her you wish she was with your girlfriend. Again, do not do this on the first date. If you did, she will lace up her Nike tennis shoes and sprint out the door. Make sure you are in a romantic setting, conversation is flowing, she may say something about how she feels about you, then express in a confident, yet nonchalant tone, that you wish she was your girlfriend. If you two are at a level of comfort for each other, then it will sound smooth and romantic guaranteeing you a great rest of the night.

4. Surprise her. Girls love romantic surprises. Surprise her with flowers, unexpected gifts or a planned date she knows nothing about. For instance, if she continuously talks about how one day she would love to go sky diving reserve a date with her. Ask her to dress in an appropriate manner without spoiling the surprise, book the sky diving place yourself and take her. She will love you forever. It shows you pay attention when she talks, and it reveals a spontaneous side. Girls love knowing it will not be monotonous spending time together. You will rack up bonus points for years with utilizing surprises.

5. Tell her how gorgeous she is when she smiles. She will be tugging at your clothes trying to take them off in no time after you relay this to her. It is the one thing that makes girls go weak in the knees instantly. And you are able to try this on the first or thirtieth date making it the number one advice I am able to pass along to you.