All your hopes, dreams and desires are banked on him. Your life actually revolves around him. Then when you thought you had everything mapped out you start noticing that he no longer calls you. You try to brush this reality away but it haunts you nevertheless. What do you do when a man stops calling you? Do you dial him up? Oh no. Do not make that mistake of being the first one to attempt calling him. It will only serve to stroke his ego. You will be giving him a reason to gloat over it. If he has deemed it good to stop calling you then let it be. Do not be the stooping type to go begging him to come back. It might portray you as a person suffering from bouts of insecurity. When a man stops calling you, make sure you do not act desperate. It is difficult but gather all your strength and gain energy to restrain yourself.



Keep yourself busy by engaging in activities that bring a sense of fulfillment to your heart. Do not sulk or cry your poor soul out. This is the best time to attend to all those things that you had put aside or had planned to do. Go to that holiday treat you had been promising yourself all along. The plans you had of visiting your relations in distant and even upcountry towns. This is the time to really accomplish them. Even the classes you had been promising yourself to join are vital now. When a man stops calling you, count it as an eye opener. May be the relationship was not meant to be. It is a blessing in disguise. He has shown his true colors early enough before the relationship got critical.

When a man stops calling you, it is not by coincidence. There is no excuse to uphold him from blame. I am saying this with confidence because a man in love is never too busy to call. He might be trying to send signals to you. The message is for you to sort yourself out. It does not mean that if he is not calling you, your life comes to a standstill. Move on with your life. The man was not meant for you. His lack of communication is an indicator that you are not on his priority list. You are not on his mind. Have a capacity to read the signs of the times. If you can be able to tell when a storm is brewing, then this will not be difficult for you. You can tell all is not well.

Avoid stress at all costs during this time. Stay healthy by eating well and doing exercises. Do not put yourself in a dilemma but always prepare for the worst. When a man stops calling you, cancel him out of your immediate plans and also your future plans. You are a lone traveller, plan your sojourn alone. It is now the high time you started preparing an exit plan from this so called relationship. Prepare an exit avenue with an intent of quitting.