Can i change my mind   See long ago you left me!   You think i would of listened when you said to me to get my life together or you would leave but now that your gone the story begins its the ending of the end of an endless end   looking back i was bringing you down but now im changing my life you said when i make a change I could stop on by now im back and I cant live without you   Chorus:   If you cant have the one you love then where are you going in your life if you cant have that person in your life then where are you heading in your life   I know you still remember all of the times I had you waiting by the telephone and never came on the line but now i got myself together and finally understand this time i'll take your heart in the palm of my hand   looking back i was bringing you down but now im changing my song you said when i make a change i could back home now im back and i cant live without you no   Chorus:   If you cant have the one you love then where are you going in your life if you cant have that person in your life then where are you heading in your life   Girl next time i tell you something and it might sound strange like the weather everyday its true that people change you gotta help me run this race before i pass us by i think its time we try this love again just one more time   Chorus:   If you cant have the one you love then where are you going in your life if you cant have that person in your life then where are you heading in your life