I know it's true but I guess nobody has to tell you  I don't always listen and I talk too much  I think I'm in tune when I'm out of touch  Baby  Don't tell me I've done it again  There's a tear on your face with my name on it  And at this moment it must be hard to see  but I am not the enemy  Chorus:  Lay your defenses down  I'll put my arms around you  put your arms around me  Baby I'm on your side  Someday I'll get it right  How can I make you see  I'm not the enemy  I don't call when I'm comin' home late  And there's three little words that are hard for me to say  I'm not so good at all those little things  But baby I am not the enemy  Chorus  Lay your defenses down  This ain' no battleground  How can I make you see  I am not the enemy