You say we're all the same   You don't even know my name   Sometime somewhere some man hurt you   I'm one of them so I get stuck with the blame   You think you know about me   You don't know a damn thing about me      I'm not all men, just one man, I'm not all men      There's one subject that everyone enjoys   I heard the boys talk the talk to the boys   I heard the girls talk the talk to the girls   It's all the same noise, neither one's worse   I didn't always tell the truth   But then again, neither did you      I'm not all men   I'm just one man   I'm not that man   I'm not all men      Get away and leave me well alone   Take your damage and take it back on home   I'm not the blame for your misery   Take your threats away from me   Take that damage and leave me all alone      I won't try to patronize you   And tell you that I know exactly what you've been through   You know it just might be   That you have no problem with me   I'm not a rapist in waiting   I'm not the one you should be hating      You take your fear and you pull it inside   It builds up and rage starts to rise   You turn it loose and your anger is blind   And you see me as the enemy   That's not the way it ought to be      You generalize and tell me lies   Like all I want's between you thighs   All the things that I put you through   And all the things that I might do   Don't wonder when I run away   When you tell me it's my time to pay   For all the tears and all the pain   For all the terrible things I never did