Oh no you didn't, oh yes I did   Uncle KJ gotta talk to ya'll kids   Listen up quick, 'cause the way some of ya'll live   Must have lost ya mind and jus' flipped your lid   Now ladies, I know what he be tellin' you   I know, 'cause back in the day I used to do it too   Talkin' 'bout, aw girl you know I love you   And if you love me too, then let me sleep wit' you      He's a fool, a lyin' schemin' dude   I'ma tell ya straight girl, now cut him loose   Why, ain't no guy that cute   If he won't respect you and wait for you   See you need a real man that loves God too   And will take a stand even if it's hard to   And I know that you can now, it's worth it for you   Check the program this is what I'm tellin' you      Ooh ya'll, better check yourself   Nah ya'll, need to check yourself   Un uh, you better check yourself   No ya'll, better respect yourself      Ooh ya'll, better check yourself   Nah ya'll, need to check yourself   Un uh, you better check yourself   No ya'll, better just respect yourself      Where my fellas at, where my fellas at?   Now some of ya'll need to check where ya head is at   I know in the locker room what they be tellin' cats   Don't buy into that now when they sellin' that   Virgin ain't a drity word don't be ashamed of that   See in reality people be respectin' that   Stand up fro yourself tell 'em jus' chill wit' that   And even if they diss turn around and bless them back      Let me talk smack and leave it at that   'Cause everybody ain't doin' it now jus' learn the facts   Don't never let somebody ever hold ya back   Nobody except God should ever tell you how to act   It's odd sayin' that 'cause peeps won't tell ya that   But it's the truth and I'll never back down from that   So if ya can handle that and like the sound of that   Then people holla back on the track thats down wit' that      Ooh ya'll, better check yourself   Nah ya'll, need to check yourself   Un uh, you better check yourself   No ya'll, better respect yourself      Ooh ya'll, better check yourself   Nah ya'll, need to check yourself   Un uh, you better check yourself   No ya'll, better just respect yourself      Ladies and gentlemen ya need to stop playin'   Stop runnin' around always missionary datin'   You think that the one you're lovin' you gonna be savin'   But end up wit' problems from the choice that ya makin'   Now some ya'll girls ya'll need to start carin'   And think twice about the clothes that you're wearin'   I know it might be nice to have all the guy starin'   But take advice, respect yourself as a women      We all want love and we all want attention   But that ain't the way to get it you understand what I'm sayin'   Wit' the baby gap outfit on that ya wearin'   Sneakin' out the house tryin' to hide from ya parents   See God said save yourself for ya marriage   And it was for a reason don't misunderstand it   Sex is a beautiful gift don't mishandle it   Ya better jus' check yourself and don't damage it      Ooh ya'll, better check yourself   Nah ya'll, need to check yourself   Un uh, you better check yourself   No ya'll, better respect yourself      Ooh ya'll, better check yourself   Nah ya'll, need to check yourself   Un uh, you better check yourself   No ya'll, better just respect yourself