Did You Ever Have to Make Up Your Mind  Lovin' Spoonful  {Refrain 1}  Did you ever have to make up your mind  Pick up on one and leave the other behind  It's not often easy and not often kind  Did you ever have to make up your mind  {Refrain 2}  Did you ever have to finally decide  Say yes to one and let the other one ride  There's so many changes and tears you must hide  Did you ever have to finally decide  Sometimes there's one with big blue eyes, cute as a bunny  With hair down to here, and plenty of money  And just when you think she's that one in the world  You heart gets stolen by some mousey little girl  And then you know you'd better make up your mind...  {Refrain 1}  Sometimes you really dig a girl the moment you kiss her  And then you get distracted by her older sister  When in walks her father and takes you a line  And says, "You better go home, son, and make up your mind"  And then you bet you'd better finally decide...  {Refrain 2}