(feat. Mary J. Blige)    I want her to feel it in her chest  I want her to feel it in her soul  I want her to lose control  Mary, talk to 'em    [Mary J. Blige:]  I  Yeah  I  You takin' a part of me  That I cannot set free  See me lettin' go  No this ain't the time  I got too much livin' to do  And I can't lose it over you  So give me the flow  I'll get my swagger goin'  I'll say this is the year for me    You makin it so damn hard  for me to love you  You makin it so damn hard  for me to love you  You makin it so damn hard  for me to love you  You makin it so damn hard  for me to love you    [Diddy:]  I know I make it hard to love me  But trust me  I could take you to places  that you ain't never been  Put you in purple labels  and that ferroin  Get your name engraved  on a weaderin  I'ma love you better  More than I ever did  Cause baby girl listen  since you been here with me  can't even lie  See the rider and your ambition  Providin' me with the fire  when you wet and drippin'  Mama if you see if you different  Go 'head and get it  and I ain't sayin' if you leave me  it'd be better  but me and you together  honey we could do whatever  let's do it  I made it hard  I admit it it's true  I need to hear somethin'  I'm listenin' boo    [Mary J. Blige:]  Make that sure things that do  I'm prepared to take it there for you  Your lovin' kissin'  It's amazin'  but it ain't enough  So I keep askin'  I stay around  For one, split the cheese  Admire it for what it is    [Diddy:]  I know I'm hard to love  Let's rock    [Mary J. Blige:]  You makin it so damn hard  for me to love you  You makin it so damn hard  for me to love you  You makin it so damn hard  for me to love you  You makin it so damn hard  for me to love you  You makin it so damn hard  for me to love you  You makin it so damn hard  for me to love you  You makin it so damn hard  for me to love you  You makin it so damn hard  for me to love you    [Diddy:]  Lemme talk to you one more time girl  You always sayin' that I don't want you to hurt  You always complainin'  but I was makin' it worse  Besides all the games that I's kickin' at first  It's time to explain  My mind's been in reverse  But now I think back  when nobody cared  And you was there  just to roll by your man  And came back  Even know what I did  I realize and I'm aware  I know what it is  Put that on everything  Girl you my everything  I don't know where I'd be  cause you the air I be  If lovin' is wrong  who could be right  I wouldn't know what to do  without you in my life  You're more to me than the world I pray  The more nights for your heart to break  Right in the middle of the dawn of day  I think of all the pain I caused  and throw it away and say  I need you in my life  can you feel it in your soul    [Mary J. Blige:]  You makin it so damn hard  for me to love you  You makin it so damn hard  for me to love you  You makin it so damn hard  for me to love you  You makin it so damn hard  for me to love you    [Diddy:]  I know it's hard to love me  that don't mean I don't love you  Hey rich  I love the way you got Harlem singin'  Mary take us home    [Mary J. Blige:]  You makin it so damn hard  for me to love you  You makin it so damn hard  for me to love you  You makin it so damn hard  for me to love you  You makin it so damn hard  for me to love you    [Diddy:]  She the queen of hip-hop soul    [Mary J. Blige:]    Yeah You Are