Time heals all wounds they say but the self-inflicted won't just fade away - And in these shifting tides of blame why are you surprised to see your name? It's such a drag, time got the best of you, things you gave you say were taken, explanation piled over excuse.      And so the story goes   But by your own design   And if you look to me to find you   Then my eyes will pass right through      Believe me I had wished, we could have avoided this. Please don't ask me to explain all the things that caused your pain - I only want you to realize, passivity equals compliance - let it slip right through your hands, become the victim of other's demands.