Most single men are in search of a good girlfriend who can be his best friend in the worst of times, who will love her man unconditionally, who will think that her man is the most important person in her life, who will take care of her man and be by his side through thick and thin. Therefore, you can't possibly have any Julie, Molly or Sally as your girlfriend.

For some people who are very busy with their work and strapped for time or those who are socially incompetent, shy or afraid to mix with the opposite sex often have to fall back on speed dating sites, internet dating sites, online dating service, friendship site and make friends online free sites or meet ladies online sites to get hold of a potential date or a prospective girlfriend.

The first step involves signing up with a reputed friendship site and creating a nice and charming interesting profile that will hook any woman. Pepper your profile with nice photographs of yours which show you engaged in some kind of activity.

Your profile should reflect your sense of humour and your intelligence, your individuality, personality, your diverse tastes and hobbies, but take care to write a grammatically correct, spelling error free peppy but short introduction to yourself without revealing much about yourself. This will hike up the interest of the female species in you.

In a friendship site like this, you will soon start receiving friend requests and lots of scraps or comments or scribbles on your scrapbook. You can socialize with these women virtually and strike up a friendship with them after accepting their friend requests. At first, I will advise you to keep the dating at a friendship level only.

It is by becoming friends with many women that you will be able to understand the mentality and nature of these women, and hopefully you will be able to select one girl who fits your bill and matches your needs and desires and will perhaps be capable of fulfilling your emotional needs. Talk to her on different subjects, ask for her views and opinions, try to understand her and try to relate to her needs and desires and identify her weak spots.

If she is a working woman, then show some interest in her work or in her hobbies. If she is ready to meet you in a public place, then you should go ahead and spend a nice day with her. Be protective towards her and don't offend her in any way. You can take her out to movies with you or maybe you can take her out to a place where she will love to spend the day.

For e.g. if she is an art lover, she will feel thrilled if you take her to an art gallery and appreciate her aesthetic bent of mind. You wouldn't go wrong if you shower her with cards, flowers and gifts because most women love them. You can even take the help of your friends to communicate your feelings for her to her.