Your whole mind includes those millions of visual memories that color what you see now. Know that, and you don't have to be so sure that what you see now is what you think you see. Especially if you don't like it.
That's worth repeating. If you don't like what you see, change what you think every day!
Einstein's Theory of Relativity explains how, at the speed of light, all things happen at once.
Time ceases to exist and what we really have is a space-time continuum.
Since there is no time, the past, present and future simply become the now.
And the now is the only place you can ever feel happy. You can't feel it anywhere else.
Nothing else exists. You either live Now or you live never.
You can't drink water yesterday nor eat a steak tomorrow.
Living outside your body'in your mind?means you are not living in the Now. You are living in a place where reality never exists.
When life seems too painful you may jump right out of your skin and live outside your body. It's the easiest way to avoid the pain of life's tests.
After my first heartbreak at fifteen, I closed my heart and lived in my head for years. Unfortunately, by avoiding the pain, I missed the lesson that makes the pain go away and the pleasure return.
"Fear" is often outside the Now. Fear of what might happen keeps us locked in. Daily we give up freedom in the name of fear. "Worry" is asking most for that which you want least. It concentrates on past and future.
"Stress" is confusion in the Now. You are in your subconscious mind looking back and your frontal lobes looking ahead, trying to do too much at once.
Multi-tasking can be hazardous to your health. If you are concentrating on three frontal lobe tasks at once your subconscious mind, which is intimately connected with your body, may trip you. A hard fall brings you right back to Now.
"So, what's with all the emphasis on goal setting?" I hear you ask. That's not living in the Now.
It is, definitely and only if you pick up a pen or pencil, a pad of paper--forget the computer--and write fast. Write whatever goal comes to mind. Be outrageous now. Doodle, too.
Live, love and laugh now . . .
and then use your frontal lobes to make some serious plans from those outrageous notes and act on them, in the now, every day.
Simpleology 101 is a good guide for that. It shows you how to build mountains from pebbles of Nows.
Recently I had pneumonia and didn't follow my frontal lobe plans that involved learning excel and rss feed and stuff my subconscious mind fights. I didn't have anything else to do while healing so I wrote three opening chapters to a novel. My subconscious mind forgot I was sick.
How To Use The Mind
So can you just think and get the body shape you have always dreamed of? Of course you can.
Let me elaborate. You see, most of us have our own mindsets developed from life experiences and although some of these mindsets served us well at some point in time, many of them are now obsolete and might even be damaging to you. If you think that I am being audaciously ridiculous by suggesting that, then let me ask you a few questions.
a) Do you believe that no matter how hard you try to lose weight, you just can't keep the weight off?
b) Do you believe that your body shape is determined by your genetic makeup and thus you can't do anything to change it?
c) Do you believe that you just do not have the discipline and commitment to get the body shape you want?
d) Do you believe that you are the skinny type and will never be able to gain weight?
If you say YES to any of these questions, then you know what? Then you are right and your bodyshape will stay the same and nothing will change. This is because nothing is going to change if you don't change your thinking.
If you harbor these negative mindsets, chances are that you will not be doing anything to change your body shape. Albert Einstein and Benjamin Franklin once said the same thing, "Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again, but expecting different results".
These negative beliefs are the reasons holding you back from achieving the level of fitness and the desirable body shape. At this point, you may also like to think about other negative beliefs you may have in other aspects of your life and learn how to replace negative beliefs with positive ones.
You see no matter how much you may want something, if you have underlying contradictory beliefs about the subject matter of what you want, you will just be sabotaging yourself.
If you believe "dieting" means having to starve yourself or going to gym workout is too much of a hassle, then it will be ridiculous to think that you can get the body shape you desire isn't it?
Then how did we develop our negative mindsets and thoughts? You see, as we grow up and experienced life, we encounter people, places, things and experiences and we collect information about them through our senses which is then stored in our subconscious mind.
Our subconscious mind is a vast databank of which you refer to every time you consciously think about something so you will know what to "feel" about it and how to react to it.
For example as a child, you may have been bitten by a dog and now, you break out into cold sweat every time you see a dog although the chances of getting bitten by a dog again are almost zero. This is because when you see a dog now, you instinctively access all of your beliefs about dogs which in turn cause you to behave in a certain way towards the animal. The beliefs we have stored in our subconscious mind dictate what how we think which in turn affect what we say and do.
To prove to you that your beliefs drive your life, let us take a look at another example. Do you remember that when you where a kid you probably believed in Santa Claus. There was no way for you that Santa did not exist, because after all, when you wake up on Christmas day, all your presents are in your stocking or under the Christmas tree. That was all the evidence you needed to proof that Santa exist.
As you grew older, new evidence presented itself until those beliefs where replaced with new ones and these new beliefs are now your reality. Your belief system has changed. However, have they changed for the better? Well, some of them yes, and many like those questions I asked earlier about your body shape don't.
The point is if you really desire to have a desirable bodyshape but is having difficulty acquiring it, then you have start identifying your underlying beliefs and change them if need be.
This could be difficult because many of your limiting beliefs are so ingrained that you don't even know they exist. There are a few ways you can do this such as by using positive affirmations, meditations and visualization. However from my experience, the easiest and most effective way to get identify and get rid of these negative beliefs is through self hypnosis.
Remember the wise saying "Change your thoughts and change your life"? Therefore, if you want to get that desirable body shape, then start identifying your negative beliefs and replace them with new positive ones into your subconscious mind and soon, your life will change for the better. Your mind is indeed very powerful!
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