What does it mean to be extraordinary and live an extraordinary life? What does it take? What does it look like? This depends on you and your imagination. Bottom line is that if we want to be successful and create lives that are outside of the realm of what most people consider to be normal and comfortable, we have to constantly become extra-ordinary in all that we do. Any step outside of our comfort zones, no matter how small, is a step toward an extraordinary life. The thing is though, it isn't like once we get to a certain level of life that we can consider to be extraordinary that we just rest on our laurels, or retire'it is a constant process of stretching, growing, and expanding beyond where we are?creating bigger and bigger goals and visions?non-stop expansion. The only thing we should become comfortable with is being uncomfortable.
Growth and change is usually not comfortable in the beginning?this is why most of us resist the process and are contented to stay in our comfort zones. Yet after we go through the iniial phase of uncomfortable feelings (fear, adrenaline, angst), we feel the exhilaration of a new level of being, and this is totally exciting! This process repeats itself over and over. To grow we have to face and go beyond our place, and we either listen to our fears and stay small or punch through them and grow. It is always a choice. The trick is to keep going and not just sit in the euphoria of the new level of awareness but rather take action from the new level and constantly strive to go beyond where we are any given moment. This is true especially in the face of challenges and obstacles we all experience. Enjoy each moment of course, yet also strive to grow beyond it, constantly. This is a HUGE key to living an extraordinary life. Just the title ?extraordinary life? implies everything about the life must be extra and beyond ordinary.
We have all heard that success is much more about the journey than the destination. It is a great reminder. It is all about who we become in the process and the end results are the reflection of all we went through to get to the goal. Quite simply, we have to become extraordinary. And extraordinary life is unlimited life. It begins with a choice to break away from the ordinary box life that most people are living. This is a major step in the process. We usually reach this when we get to the point of total frustration with our situation, feeling that we want and deserve so much more, but not knowing what to do to make the necessary changes.
There are very simple things we can do every moment of every day to live an extraordinary life and create and establish the habit of always being extraordinary. What it's all about is getting into the flow and habit of going beyond our current situation. This can be applied to absolutely any area of our lives, and it can be the tiniest step. We each know where our comfort zones are and how willing we are to go beyond them. The smallest step for someone can lead to the biggest breakthrough, the step just needs to be taken!
If we take these steps, then we experience of what it is to be extraordinary'IT?S A TOTAL RUSH! At first it's scary because it's unknown territory, to go to a place where we haven't been before. As we are all creatures of habit, we like to feel safe and secure...doing what we know we are good at and what we can do. Yet to become extraordinary we have to constantly go beyond what is comfortable, safe, and secure. Security is an illusion. Security in insecurity is the secret to living an extraordinary life, it's all about being comfortable with being uncomfortable!
I DARE you to do something new every day that is outside of your comfort zone. This can be anything, nothing is too small. You will feel it too, when you move toward a new direction you will feel some resistance initially, just go through it. Change is uncomfortable for most of us. Try a food you have never had, visit a place you have never been, do the thing you have been afraid to do!
Whatever is holding you back, BLOW THROUGH IT! Feel from the inside out who you become in the process, then you will know what it is to be extraordinary. The lesson here is in the habit you are creating in your day-to-day life of going beyond your habitual ways of thinking and doing things, and in this process you will feel the experience of being and becoming extraordinary. As you make this a habit and master this process, you will get to the point where you will be EXCITED to see what you can do with a BRING IT ON! attitude in every area of your life. I don't know about you, but this is the kind of life I like to live! GO FOR IT!
?We don't know who we are until we see what we can do!? - Martha Grimes
Life Outside Of Earth
Consider these facts from How to Make Big Money in Your Own Small Business by Jeffrey Fox:
? Small business today represents 99% of all employers in America
? Small business today generates 80% of all new jobs annually
? Two-thirds of the top 5% of taxpayers are small business owners averaging $400,000 of income per year.
That's a lot of money!
For most, however, the dream becomes a nightmare. According to the Wall Street Journal? there were 572,900 small business births in 2004 and 554,800 deaths, a business mortality rate of 97%.
The human cost of this statistic is even more staggering: families, friends, personal savings, and even physical health.
I regularly meet with business leaders who have not had a vacation in years and can't remember the last time they took a day off. I've been told many times, in moments of brutal honesty, "If I keep working like this it will kill me!"
If this is where you seem to be heading, there is hope. I believe with all my heart you can succeed wildly at what you do AND experience a satisfying personal life. I have clients who enjoy that reality every day.
TRADITIONAL TIME MANAGEMENT DOESN'T WORK ANY MORE
You see, traditional time management doesn't work anymore. Traditional time management says, "Do you have 10 things to do today? I can show you how to do 15. Do you have 15 things to do today? I can show you how to do 20."
But the stark reality of business today is that we have 30, 40, and even 50 things to do every single day that simply cannot get done through greater efficiency.
Returning from a typical day out of the office, today's small business owners have over one hundred emails to read, scores of voice mail messages to answer, and a series of appointments in the calendar made electronically without their consent (curiously called "invitations").
With this explosion of things to do we must make choices, hard choices, about the way we spend our time. Success in today's' tidal wave of 24/7/365 living demands that we separate the important from the urgent and do only that which matters most.
In short, greater focus NOT greater efficiency.
FOCUS NOT EFFICIENY IS THE KEY TO BETTER BUSINESS RESULTS
"Concentration-that is, the courage to impose what really matters most and comes first-is the business leader's only hope of mastering time and events instead of being their whipping boy," wrote leadership expert Peter Drucker over 40 years ago in his business classic The Effective Executive.
It is this kind of concentration, the courgage of our convictions about what matters most, that is needed in business today!
Focusing on what matters most, both personally and professionally, is what gives us calm in the middle of a storm of activity.
Focusing on what matters most, rigorously and relentlessly, sets the highest priorities for each and every day and determines the most important steps of action needed to fulfill them.
Focusing on what matters most refuses to live on the adrenaline rush that urgency gives us and does what is best for our self, our family, and our business.
FOUR QUESTIONS TO HELP YOU FIND YOUR FOCUS
Here are four questions to help you apply greater focus to your personal and professional life:
1. What are my top 4-6 personal and professional priorities? You don't get more than six! Most business leaders I work with land on 1-2 personal priorities and 3-4 professional priorities.
2. What are the 1-2 most important steps of action I can take to act on these priorities each and every week? These are not the only things you do during the week, but they are the most important things THAT GET DONE NO MATTER WHAT.
3. How can I put these 10-12 top priority steps of action in my calendar so that they are protected and uninterrupted? Let's suppose for a minute that you have a doctor's appointment scheduled for Thursday at 2:00 PM, how would you make sure you got there? Treat these 10-12 steps of action?that's just 2-3 items a day?like a doctor's appointment.
4. What things am I doing during the week that are NOT my top priorities and should NOT be done? Drucker again observes, "I have yet to see an executive, regardless of rank or station who could not consign a quarter of the demands on his time to the wastepaper basket without anybody's noticing their disappearance."
A POWERFUL SUCCESS STORY AT IBM
Louis V. Gerstner was apointed CEO of IBM on April Fool's Day 1993.
IBM stock had plunged to $12.73 a share, but when Gerstner left the company eight years later, Big Blue's was trading at $120.96. It was the greatest turnaround in business history. Gerstner tells his story in the brilliant book, Who Says Elephants Can't Dance? Central to Gernster's success was an epiphany he had a year into the job. One of his senior leaders came to him and said, "Over the weekend, I counted them up, there are about two dozen things that you want me to wake up in the morning and focus on. I can't do it. I'm not that good. What do you really want people to do?"
These words stunned Gerstner: What do you really want people to do? Not 10 things, certainly not 24 things. Gerstner landed on three and these three revolutionized IBM. That is the power of focus.
If it can turn around a company with 300,000 employees, it can certainly do the same for your small business.
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