When you meet women you may be interested in, do you ask yourself "what do I do now?" Don't you wish you just knew exactly what to do step by step to attract women? When it comes to breaking the game down into a logical process the undisputed gold standard was originally developed by Mystery. This structure has been updated to define four distinctive emotional triggers proven to attract beautiful, intelligent women. These triggers are the basis of any interaction between you and women so take note. You must proactively lead women through these stages to build attraction.



The first trigger is the feeling that a man's value is equal or greater than her own. The way that you create this value is often called attraction. Through your humor, stories and strong self-image you create value and attraction. Specific tactics are beyond the scope of this article but what you are doing is subtly dropping hints about your social intuition, intelligence, status, and unique personality.

The second trigger is when she feels special in the high value male's (that's you) eyes. Women want to feel that they are unique and special in your eyes for reasons other than their looks. You may here this referred to as qualification. When building rapport you are asking about who she is to find commonalities but in the context that she is qualifying to you, not the other way around. Then you can give her compliments about aspects of her personality instead of her looks like every other guy who's hit on her.

The third emotional trigger is comfort and connection. Most guys skip the previous two steps and skip strait to comfort or rapport building. This is an important step but not until you have build attraction and qualification. This is the longest phase, beginning with qualification and progresses both emotionally and physically, while learning about each other until she is comfortable enough to be in a sexual situation with you.

The last trigger is seduction. This means she is sexually aroused by your touch without awkwardness or embarrassment. This phase is meant to intensify her willingness to have sex with you and mitigate her reasons not to.

So, as you continue to read and learn about the art of seduction keep all these emotional triggers in mind. They are all vital and should progress in the order we have discussed here. As you learn different "techniques" or ways to interact with women, think about what trigger in the process your tactics fit into. This is a brief overview, so keep reading and learning through experience.