For one reason or the other people have the fear of speaking in public, saying what's on their mind. The funny part is that they fear to stand in front of an audience for a while whereas the though of standing their and giving a long speech is next to impossible.
Here today I will share with you how you could overcome this fear and speak with more confidence in public.
Prepare yourself:
The first and most important thing is to preparing yourself for the topic. Have a good night sleep before the day of the speech. If you have not rested properly then your tiredness will show and will be an immediate failure in making a proper impression over the audience. If you are tired then your mind will not be able to function as sharply as it should while giving the presentation or speech. Cover all the aspects rehearse a lot. For the speech you need to have the confidence in your mind that it's not a big deal, prepare yourself physically and psychologically as well. Have good food, do not go hungry to a speech and do not also go too full. This will influence your concentration as well.
On the same lines you need to be well prepared on the topic that you would be presenting. You need to consider the fact that the time of the audience is important as well so provide them with something worthy of their time. A research showed and is a matter of fact you are more confident when you have a command on the subject or at least know what you are talking about. So do your homework and prepare your subject of discussion.
Rehearse a few times:
Before delivering the speech you need to go through all the content in detail and see how you deliver everything. Even the best speakers in the history have been known to practice a number of times privately before delivering their speeches in front of an audience. If you can make a video of your performance do that, as this will give you precise information about the mistakes and will also guide you about your body postures and gestures. Give you an idea what are the mistakes and how to improve it. This is a really powerful technique if employed effectively could do miracles.
Dress accordingly:
First impression always ensures weather your audience will be compelled to take you seriously or not. If you look too casual or too formal for the speech it will give an amateurish expression to the audience. Knowing your audience, knowing your subject will help you to weigh what would be the proper attire for the speech.
Be focused and Natural:
During the speech two most vital things to keep in mind is to stay focused and be as natural as you can. Do not pretend to be like someone else. Maintain your original style which you have practiced during your rehearsals and perfected. Have the self confidence that you are the one on stage and everyone is down their in front of you listening. Feel your power. Feel the power of every word that comes out of your mouth. Have the belief that what you are saying is going to make a difference or is worth listening.
Have the right frame of mind:
To be a confident speaker you need to know that you are a confident speaker. This self realization will lead in development of the confidence that you are searching from within. If you have all the negative thoughts in your mind that it's not going to go well or how you perform then most likely you will end up performing not up to the mark. However, if you have the optimistic attitude that everything will go well and you will come out a winner and even while you are speaking to people act as if you are a winner already. This will give you the right confidence that you are looking for and eventually will shine out in front of everyone too.
Keep these pointers in your mind before giving the speech and prepare yourself to be the confident speaker which you never thought you could be.
Public Speaking Fear Tips
1)Speak with conviction. Don't hesitate using your words, stutter, or even pause for the longest time. There is a reason why you're giving this speech in front of doctors, or students because you know your stuff, you have already mastered this stuff. That is why, always maintain volume in your words and never let your audience know that you have doubts regarding your subject.
2)Body Language is of utmost importance. As much as possible when you speak in front of an audience, stand up and walk around the stage – not in strident steps but in slow and careful steps. Hands should always be by the sides, except when emphasizing a point wherein you can use your hands for a little bit of movement. Use visual aids, if necessary, but don't put too much detail on the visual aids. You still need some space and time to explain the matter thoroughly.
3)Do not read from your notes. As much as possible, master your notes – do not memorize, as when you forget one word, you will forget everything. After all, you know your subject right? Don't mumble, and speak your words clearly. If you forget the next part of your speech, just list all the crucial details, and just give the most crucial message.
4)Know your audience. Will you be speaking in front of a group of two-year old children? Or will your audience be composed of mostly adults? Or are you speaking in a high school about the dangers of drugs? Knowing your audience makes all the time in the world since it would give you enough time to use your language properly. The language that you use will vary according to age, race, beliefs and others. You can't use hard words when dealing with children. On the other hand, you should not use words that have architectural jargon in front of doctors.
5)Give sincere eye contact. Straying your eyes away from the audience is a sign of nervousness, or a sign that you are not confident with the subject you are talking about. Aside from confidence, maintaining eye contact signifies a special interest on the needs of the audience, and tells them that they are as important as the message you are giving them.
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Syed Muzaffar Aqleem Tirmizi has sinced written about articles on various topics from Skin Care, Organizational and Public Speaking. Syed Muzaffar Aqleem Tirmizi is part of the operational management in leading cellular operator in Pakistan, specializing in providing training solutions for individuals, teams and organizations. He also specializes in training needs, analysis and mentori. Syed Muzaffar Aqleem Tirmizi's top article generates over 720 views. to your Favourites.
Tony Sebastian has sinced written about articles on various topics from Keyboard Synthesizer, Public Speaking and Writing. Tony Sebastian is a professional public speaker and has 10 years of experience in public speaking arena and give many speeches in many occasion. He recommends. Tony Sebastian's top article generates over 1900 views. to your Favourites.
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