You are finally together with the girl you are dreaming of. Of course she is beautiful and most importantly sexy. However, you man also find out that other men are staring in her whenever you are going out with her. You would really tell other men that she is your girl friend. You will probably also try to hold her tight at this point. You start have the feeling of jealousy and insecurity. This is probably because your partner is too good! Due to your feeling of insecurity, you will start calling and checking her constantly.



Your feeling of insecurity will make you irrational. You will try to use money to occupy all her time. You will buy her the most beautiful flowers. You will also go out with her for the most expensive dinners. You will even give her very expensive gifts. When you have vacation, you will go out with her for extremely luxurious holidays. You would like to control her with your money. You would like to make her isolated from the outside world. Her friends will be really upset at this point because you are over reacting to your insecurity and jealousy.

You may probably ask where all this jealousy and insecurity comes from. There can be various sources for this. It can be originated from the bad experiences before. You ex may be as sexy and she suddenly ran away one day. As a result you want to ensure that you will not lose another girl again and then you will do all of the things described above.

Another reason can be correlated to money. Some guys will feel envy towards other men who are apparently better then themselves. For example, a man may feel envy to another guy who is a lot richer than himself. And this will in turn create the sense of jealousy.

In fact, men are just like women most of the time. They need to be loved and liked. They would like to be respected. They would like to be important and special, at least to their partner. And this is also a reason for the jealousy and insecurity.

As a result, you will need to check yourself if you are feeling jealousy. You have to take some time to asses yourself. The key to conquer the jealousy is to learn to be rational. You can also take time to do exercises so that you will not think too much on the issue. You should also trust your girl friend. Again, communication is the key to solve the problem. You should constantly discuss and communicate with her if you feel any problem.