A lot of dating sites out there can tell you thousands of little secrets, tips and tricks on how to attract women but the thing about those stuff is that they're basically just that: tips and tricks-never really what you exactly need to get a girl to truly be interested in you and like you.

In knowing how to attract girls, you only need to keep in mind three basic things: engaging, humor, and confidence.

1. Engaging

So what does engaging mean?

Engaging is simply about knowing how to start and sustain a conversation. It's not about knowing how to pick up women with washed-up pick-up lines; it's about showing genuine interest by creating a stimulating and interesting conversation.

Engaging someone in a conversation tells her that you want to go beyond the surface level-that yes, you find her beautiful but now you want to find out if you are actually a good match. It tells her that you want to get to know her more.

2. Humor

Another basic thing about knowing how to attract women is humor. You don't have to be a professional comedian, though. You just gotta know how to laugh at jokes and make her laugh at least every once in a while. Women (and people in general) find funny men irresistable because basically, people naturally feel good around someone who can make them laugh.

3. Confidence

And finally, confidence. The one thing that you should have if you really want to know how to atttact women, then you definitely have to have confidence. It doesn't matter if you've read all the pick-up books in the world; if you don't believe in yourself, then everything you've read won't be put to use.

Truth: a good woman always wants a confident man. They can always tell whether a man is confident or not.

Playing the pity game will get you nowhere. Of course, some may find it cute but cuteness is way different from attraction. If you want genuine attraction, then you have got to be confident in yourself.

If you want to know how to attract women, it is strongly suggested that you read James Bradley's "How to Be Irresistible to Women".

This book, and a lot of other bonuses that come with it will teach you just how to meet the girl of your dreams, create and maintain a relationship with her, and treating her right in bed. If you want a long-lasting relationship with the right woman, then James Bradley is the man for you.