Taking attraction and rapport to the first kiss may seem like a big shift of gears. By fallowing the physical progression covered in a previous article, getting physical with a woman should be gradual and natural. When it comes to the first kiss many guys are a little freaked out. They don't want to be rejected or make her feel uncomfortable by being too forward. Kissing her doesn't have to be this way. Sure sometimes the bold move is pure magic but what we are going to cover here is how to make the first kiss smooth and natural.



The first kiss is just a step in an emotional and physical connection between the two of you that should have begun the moment you met. She should at least be comfortable being led by the hand, hugged or held close by you first. As your physical connection progresses through these early stages your emotional connection should progress as well. You should have built attraction enough to want to talk one on one. You should also be able to connect on a more personal level and be able to show her your interested in her for more than just her looks. This is a very simple break down of an emotional and physical progression we have no time to go into further detail here. Just remember, a kiss should feel like the next comfortable step instead of a bold move.

There are many fun unique ways to pull off the first kiss. One of the most practical and sensual ways to initiate the first kiss is stroking the bottom of her hair or even sweeping it aside out of her face. If she enjoys this she's into you. Now here is were things get good. You lean in and while holding her close you smell her shoulders then pull back for a moment. Then lean in again smelling her neck and ears. This builds intense sexual tension. Finally lean in and give her a kiss and pull back. This is the type of progression that is ideal for intimate one on one setting.

For more lighthearted encounters in higher energy situations. A classic simply asking, "Do you want to kiss me?" If she says yes, kiss her. If she says maybe, say to her "lets find out" and kiss her. If she says no, say, "I didn't say you could, it just looked like you had something on your mind." The beauty of this approach is its cocky and bold without being too physically forward and if she says no, you get to have fun by playfully busting on her as if she's the aggressor.

You have two fun ways to get the kiss in two different types of situations. If you read up, you will find that getting the first kiss can be a very fun game that builds great tension and chemistry.