I know you may think that others control your future but they don't. Your choices brought you to where you are in your life right now, whether they were good, bad, or ugly. And if you don't like where you are, then it is up to you to change it. If you are ready to make this year your best year ever, then you are going to have to take a stand for YOU. Nobody is going to give it to you. Nobody is going to take you seriously if you don't take yourself seriously. You will have to learn how to take back your power, put YOU first, and take committed action to make it happen. No More People Pleasing!
The sooner you start working on kicking your People Pleasing habits out the door, the better your life is going to be. The havoc of being caught up in this never ending cycle of pleasing everyone but yourself wears you down, both mentally and physically. I know. I've been there.
So where do you want to be at the end of this year? New Year's resolutions just don't cut it for me because they always feel like "should's" instead of choices. I prefer to set intentions and make commitments for my new year. And when I do, I'm more committed to making it happen. I then write it down in my journal so it makes it real to me. My intention this year is to make 2008 the best year ever. I'm getting excited just talking about it.
So how do you make this happen?
You plan for it. Here are the steps that have worked for me and I know will work for you.
I determine where I want to be at the end of 2008. What do I want that to look like? How is it going to feel when I get there? I create my vision of what I want my year to look like. For example: This year my intention is to double my business. Here are the questions that I ask myself to help me get there.
What is that going to look like in dollars? Clients? More subscribers to your newsletters? Develop more products? Speaking engagements? Marketing?
Is my vision in keeping with my Core Values? Core values are what keep me aligned with my integrity so I don't second guess myself.
What's working and what's not working in business? What do I need to change to make it work better (and easier)?
What are the action steps that I need to take to get to this next level of success?
What is the time frame for my action steps?
What kind of support will I need to make it happen? What requests will I need to make?
What are the obstacles that get in my way and hold me back? How will I handle them and move through them?
How will I feel when I achieve my vision? I can tell you right now, I will be beside myself with joy.
How will I reward myself when I achieve my vision?
How will I feel a year from now if nothing has changed and I have taken no action?
There you have it - your 2008 Success Strategies. My surefire steps for helping you create the life you want and deserve RIGHT NOW.
Remember the words of Mark Victor Hansen, "You control your future and your destiny. Put it in good hands - YOUR OWN.
Your In Good Hands
Imagine the next time you join a discussion about "credit score". When
you start sharing the fascinating "credit score" facts below, your
friends will be absolutely amazed.
The purchase of a new home, a new family sedan, or starting a business
is some of the reasons why people take out loans. These assets could
cost you tens to hundreds of thousands of dollars each, thus it will
really be a huge financial burden to acquire these properties using
cold cash. Taking out a loan (whether it requires you a collateral or
not) will help you in making the purchases of these properties.
However, there are two facades in taking out a loan?its either you win
and take it all or you lose and go home with nothing at all but a sad
face.
Your success or failure: Your credit score is the most significant
factor whether you are eligible for the loan of your choice or not.
The rule is simple: if you have a good credit score, you have high
chances of getting the loan. On the other hand, if you have a bad
credit score, you have slim chances of doing so. Instead, your lender
will provide you a selection of loans with a common base?high interest
payments.
Before applying for any loan that you need you must understand the role
of a FICO credit scoring system, FICO (Fair ISAAC & Company) is the
leading credit report agency that loan providers turn to with regards
to credit scoring for any loan application. In other words, if you
possess a bad credit history, the lenders will know your credit
situation and decide on your loan application based on your credit
history.
Is everything making sense so far? If not, I'm sure that with just a
little more reading, all the facts will fall into place.
Here is the summary of the FICO credit score classification:
? If you have a credit score of more than 700, you are eligible for a
loan with the best interest rate under excellent terms.
? If you have a credit score of between 640 and 700, you will be able
to qualify for 125 percent of your preferred loan.
? If you have a credit score of between 600 and 640, you will be able
to get your preferred loan without making down payment.
? If you have a credit score of between 500 and 600, you will be
eligible to your preferred loan provided you are willing to make a down
payment.
? If you have a credit score of less than 500, there is a slim chance
that you get your preferred loan.
Once you've determined your credit situation and you think you can
secure a loan, you need to have a credit report submitted to your
preferred lender. There are hundreds of credit companies that furnish
reports to commercial lenders, but you might want to try the services
offered by Equifax Personal and Business Solutions and see yourself
getting approved for the loan that you have applied for.
Equifax Personal and Business Solutions compiles your credit reporting
data from credible sources and creates a credit file, which will
reflect your personal credit history, including your FICO score.
Through Equifax, you will be able to monitor your entire credit history
and check for any inaccurate entries.
Realizing the need for an accurate and free-of-fraud credit reporting,
Equifax is now offering online credit report services which have an
easy and immediate access to 3 nationwide credit reports, customer care
for any inaccurate credit data on your report, and daily monitoring of
3 credit reports with alerts for any changes that must be done.
With Equifax Personal and Business Solutions, your good credit score
report is in good hands.
The day will come when you can use something you read about here to
have a beneficial impact. Then you'll be glad you took the time to
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