You say you love me out of mercy   You say you hate the things I do   You don't like the friends I chose, the cologne I use   My taste in shoes   And I don't spend enough on you      Well. you can be who you want to be, see who you want to see   I don't feel any pain   You can know who you want to know, go where you want to go   I won't stand in your way   You can live how you want to live, love who you want to love   Go ahead and waste their time   I'm in a gone state of mind   I wish you'd pack your bags and leave me   But I don't know how you would survive   You need me to feel the pain, to play the game, to take the blame   It makes you feel like you're alive      You're wrong, I'm sorry   My pain, your party   Your love, my waste of time