The first and foremost thing in picking up women is approaching them with confidence and carrying a casual yet engaging conversation that will spark some interest from the woman.



When you're already actually talking to the woman or being on a date with her, you have to follow through and continue to be the confident guy that you started out to be. One of the most important things to observe when talking to a woman is to be able to lead the conversation. This does not mean that you should dominate the conversation and keep talking about yourself, your likes, your pet peeves, and your current problems. This is not how you will get a girlfriend. Be smart and know that this conversation is about getting to know the woman as much as it is about sharing more about yourself.

Conversation is something that will take you will into your golden years of marriage, so it's extremely important to get it right at first. You'll want to ask things that you know how she'll respond to, and also other questions that you don't. If you can do this properly, you'll have control as to where the conversation goes next ? a powerful tool indeed. This tells her that you're different that the man who only cares about taking her home for the night.

Using actions : A touch can be powerful among women. One touch, if done right, can knock a woman off her feet. But you have to know how to do it correctly. And what this means is not about taking advantage of or making a pass at women. That is not the way to pick up women.

Touching can be a number of things, and not necessarily the famous 'yawn and put your arm across her shoulder' at the movies. Things such as gently touching her arm, touching her back when leading her through a door, and even speaking softly into her ear when the surroundings are loud (such as at a nightclub). This type of thing can really excite a woman.

Touching could also include things such as opening a car door for her, leading her into a building first, et cetera. Again, if done correctly this can really be a powerful way of leading into your next move.

Using words and actions on a date or when you meet someone new is not rocket science. If you do it correctly and at the right moment, not only will you attract the women you meet. You will also feel more confident about your words and your moves, and ultimately, your personality.