Let look at the minor issue. Perhaps you are involved in a heated argument with her. On the spur of the moment, you blurted out something that you shouldn't have said. "Ok, enough! Let us break up!" You regretted what you have done. Sometimes, all it takes it a simple apology.



What happen if it is a more serious issue? For example, you committed an affair. The first step before seeking reconciliation is to really ask yourself if you will do it again. You must really make the decision not to do it again. Or else, it is definitely not fair to her. Once you have made the decision, then you can start to plan what to do.

It is hard to say whether you can get your ex girlfriend back. But if you believe it is good for both of you, then do not give up because there is always a chance. The fact is many miracles have occurred in other people relationship.

Of course, there are many other reasons that cause a break up. Generally, if you want to increase your chances of reconciliation, there are certain things that you should not do, especially when you just broke up.

1)Don't call her too often.

You called her. And she didn't answer. You keep on calling her. This is what you should avoid doing. Most probably, she wouldn't want to talk to you now. It is always better to wait until both of you are in a better emotional state.

2)Don't say certain words

Saying things like "I need you in my life" is not going to help. It makes you looks needy and makes you unattractive. It will also make you look like a kid. Refrain from doing that as it will spoil your chances.

3)Don't stalk her

No one likes to be stalked.

Most probably, you will want to know what she is doing now. You will find excuses to meet her, probably "coincidentally". Probably, you will go to places that she frequents. You bump into her and pretend that is was an accidental meeting. Don't try this kind of tricks. It can be pretty obvious. It never works and it can make both of you feel awkward.