Legally speaking, erotic massage is not available for men or women in all of the United States except Nevada. Massage as a practice is heavily regulated by respective state boards, (almost) all of which prohibit any act deemed inappropriate for a therapeutic setting. For example, Section 29.1(b)(5) of the Regents regulations on massage practice in New York State prohibits "immoral conduct," which is defined as massage of genital areas and massage of a client who is not properly draped for massage, or by a massage therapist who is not properly dressed.
A licensed massage/bodywork therapist is, in fact, required by law to stop practicing the moment he or she suspects that the client would like something more than a good neck rub, shoulder work, etc. That said, erotic massage for women is, nonetheless attainable, despite its spurious legal status in the US.
A simple web search of "massage for women" brought up a number of services, which tended to call their service "sensual" massage, while advertising "gorgeous hunks" (as per Hunkmania website). Indeed, another service accessible at Malecourtesan website offered the willing lady an "exclusive paramour for sensuous fulfillment & tender intimacy!" Now, that sounds not only erotic, but a little creepy. After the guy rubs you down to your heart's content, it seems he will cuddle with you, too. In addition, there are a fair number of "tantric erotic massages" available, except I am pretty sure that "tantric" is supposed to refer to thoughts and not any sort of touch.
At any rate, these kinds of services can also be found in the back pages of most free-weekly newspapers, and are searchable on craigslist. I would guess that practically any advertised male-escort serviceman would be willing to provide erotic massage for a sizable tip.
It is difficult to ascertain what exactly these services mean by "sensual massage," and it is important to note, that as erotic massage (for pay) is illegal, practitioners that provide this kind of service have to be very careful about how and what they advertise. A licensed massage therapist friend of mine told me that therapists will often check into the nature of questionable practices, and report any and all illegal activity. It seems that even the seemingly benign business of relaxation is quite cut-throat.
However, the woman that would like to purchase an erotic massage, but does not want to take part in an illegal activity, can always take her business outside of the US. Among other nations, Japan, Thailand, and New Zealand stand out as havens for erotic massage. Because Japanese law is famously lax regarding prostitution, prohibiting only full on coitus, there is quite an array of erotic services available legally.
According to Feministing website, there has been an increase in the amount of middle aged (40-50) year old Japanese housewives requesting erotic massage from "rent-a-fling" services. To be fair, it has been socially acceptable for Japanese men to receive such services from girls, so this recent surge is kind of a backlash of sorts.
As with anything, it seems that if a woman really wants an erotic massage, she will find it without too much trouble. Well, possibly some legal trouble, but I guess that is another story.
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That's why MySpace has become the #1 source for meeting interesting women.
Now you might think contacting women on MySpace is relatively easy. All you have to do is create a profile and then start contacting women in your area. Then you can sit back and wait for women to contact you back.
Unfortunately it's not that easy!
The major problem with MySpace is this site is saturated with lonely guys who try to taking the easiest path towards meeting women. What they do is contact every interesting girl on this site. As a result, almost every woman on this site is bombarded with messages from guys.
As a result, most women on MySpace are tired of men pestering them.
So what does this mean to you?
Well my advice is to get serious about meeting women on MySpace. If you want to have ANY success, you have to develop a strategy that'll make you stand apart from other guys.
The most crucial part of this strategy is to find women on MySpace who are open to being contacted.
In this article, I'll discuss how you can find women on MySpace that WANT to talk to you. Each strategy will help you stand apart from the methods which other guys use and locate girls who are receptive to your emails.
Tip #1- Contact New Women
Similar to online dating sites, you'll get the best results if you contact women who have recently joined MySpace. Because women receive tons of emails through MySpace, it's important to contact the females who aren't sick of the guys on this site.
By contacting new member, you'll have a higher success rate. This is especially true if you use a unique and interesting message.
Tip #2- Contact available women
On your MySpace profile, there is an option which allows you to browse for different types of women. One of the items includes a tool which narrows down your search to finding women who are looking for a certain type of person. The four options include friends, networking, dating or relationships.
My advice is to try to contact girls who are actively looking for dating or relationships. Since they've stated they're looking for dating or relationships, these women will be more open to being contacted.
Tip #3- Contact certain women who are only looking for friends and networking
As I mentioned before, a lot of women love MySpace but get tired of guys contacting them. So does that mean you're not supposed to contact them?
The answer is no!
Even though a woman is only looking for friends or networking on this site, it doesn't mean she's not open to being contacted. Since these women have stated they only want friends, you have to approach them in a different way.
First you should take a look at the profile of any girl you're interested in. When taking a look here, you should find out if she's in a relationship. Obviously when you see this, it's an indication that she doesn't want anything beyond friendship. So my advice is to only contact women who are single and looking for friends.
Second when you contact a girl who is looking for friends or networking, you should do so in a friendly manner. Bring up something in her profile and try to spark a conversation. In other words, try being a friend at first and then seeing where things develop from there.
Since you have a long time to transition from friends to something else, you should contact her in a non threatening manner and be friendly.
Tip #4- Attend a MySpace party
Another unique way to meet women through this site is to attend a MySpace party. While technically a MySpace party is different from the standard way to meet women on this site, attending one of these events is a great way to increase your social circle.
On the MySpace site, there is a section which lists local events. Since many bars host "MySpace parties" there should be a listing in the events section with full details.
By attending a MySpace party, you'll be able to mingle with your MySpace friends and maybe meet new women.
Tip #5- Contact friends of friends
The final way to find women on MySpace is to take a look at the profiles of your friends. Just like in the "real world", having a mutual friend is a great way to quickly build an intimate relationship with a woman. By contacting the women on your friends list, you at least have a common person you know.
Just mention how you found her and then make a comment about her profile. If everything goes right, the two of you should make an instant connection.
Trying to find the right type of women on MySpace can be a difficult challenge.
Since women have hundreds of guys contacting them through this site, you'll discover that it's important to stand out from the crown and know what you're doing.
If you pay attention to the techniques I described in this article, you'll find it's easy to contact and meet attractive MySpace women in your area.
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