The first steps to get your ex back are laid here. This is what you shouldn't do and lay the path for a reconciliation. If you are doing these, stop right now and keep reading.

There are a lot of things you shouldn't do to try to get your ex back. Here we will list just some of the most common ones you have to avoid immediately.

1.) Avoid Arguing The most common emotional reaction is to argue about the break up. You don't think it's fair, you think is wrong. However, arguing with your ex will not help you get her back. Stop this now.

In this situation, being logical and arguing with your girlfriend is going to make the situation worse. This will only drive your girlfriend further away and make it more difficult to get your ex girlfriend back. What is most unfortunate is that we all know that love is one of the most important aspects of our life. Yet, we are not taught about this subject in schools.

2) Spying on her Probably one of the worst reactions is trying to spy on her. You want to check to see what the real reason for breaking up was. You will only make a fool of yourself if you are caught and will cause the process of getting her back much more difficult.

3) Venting your Anger on everybody Many people want to vent their anger and take it to their friends and family. Worse, some take it on their ex girlfriend. This can only harm your relationship. If you start getting angry at everybody, she will find out and just feel sorry for you. Try to remain calm so you can plan how to get your ex back.

By not doing the three things above, you will not spoil your chances of getting back your ex girlfriend. This is the foundation to get your ex back with our next plan