Well, you are definitely not the only one in this kind of situation. There are probably a lot of people in the same or even worse situation than you. A lot of times, if you just break up, you will have several friends around you telling you to just move on. They may say something like you will definitely find someone better.

Of course, they do so with the best of intention. Your friends love you and definitely want you to be happy instead of being stuck in your old relationship. And I dont deny the fact that sometimes it is definitely better to let go of the relationship as getting back together may not really make both of you feel happier.

But if you really think that you want this relationship back and you believe that he/she may still have some feelings for you, then by all means try you very best to salvage the relationship.

Of course, the first thing you might want to do is to look at what cause you to break up initially. Does the problem lie with you? Or maybe the problem lies with your ex. Or maybe both of you are at fault.

This is important because if you do not deal with the root of the problem, there is no point in getting back together.

Even if you do manage to get back together with your ex, it is mostly going to be temporary. One day, the root problem is going to resurface again and may cause both of you to break up again. Surely, you dont want to go through the pain of break up twice, do you?

After identifying the problem you will also want to see if both of you are willing to resolve the problems together. By doing so, you will ensure that both of you have a strong and lasting relationship.

Sometimes, a break up may not be a bad thing after all. It forces both of you to look at the problems and resolve them together. If both of you can survive this tough time, it will make your relationship stronger than ever before.