Well, if you are very bothered by the questions above, here is my answer:

I believed that no matter how impossible the situation is, or how it seems to you, it is indeed possible to get your girl back. You may think that your situation is unique. You may even think that you are trap in the worst situation ever.

But from what I know, there are probably people who are in a similar situation as you. Sure, their stories can't be completely the same as you. But most likely, the underlying problems are the same. And there are definitely people out there who are in a worse situation than you. Perhaps, I shall share something interesting with you below. I hope it will inspire you and give you hope.

I remembered recently, I just read a story. I think you can really call it a miracle. I can't remember the exact details now, but I will just briefly tell you what it is about.

There was this couple who had met almost 30 years ago. They fell in love with each other when they just met. They have been together for quite a few years. But somehow, some problems arise before them and they soon break up.

So, within these 30 years, both of them were married and they have their own kids. However, during these 30 years, both of them were quite unhappy about their marriage. Also, this couple still thinks of each other during these 30 years.

Thanks to the internet, they found each other on a social networking site and decided to meet again. They realize that they still love each other and they are now already married for a few years. And they now love each other even more.

Even though I can't recall the exact details of the story but it is not important. What I am trying to illustrate in this story is that couples do get back in all sorts of weird situation. Most probably, you have not separated from you girlfriend for 30 years, have you?

If this couple can get back together, why can't you? If you are really serious about getting an ex back, it can be done. Be more positive. When you have a more positive outlook, you will instantly become more attractive and have a higher chance of attracting your ex back.