Doing certain things can help you get back your ex more easily. Yet, there are also other things that you will definitely want to avoid doing. Doing them can potentially makes it more difficult for you to get your ex back.

If there is only one principle that you must apply, I would say it is this, "People want what they cannot have." Don't you think this is very true, not only in your relationship, but in many other areas of our life.

Money is a very common example. When people don't have the money, sometimes, they are willing to resort to anything just to get more of it. But when they start to have more money, they will start seeking out other things that they do not have. It can be intangible things like fame, pride, etc to more tangible things like rare collections of antiques, paintings etc.

It doesn't matter whether it is meaningful o do that or not. Human beings simply like to chase after things that they do not have.

So, how are you going to make use of this principle to get your ex back and achieve the magical effect of making up - so called the "magic of making up".

Well, first you must ensure that the things you do don't violate the principle. You don't want to call your ex too often. You don't want to show your ex any sign that you are desperate to get him/her back, even though that is really your desire.

The reason is very simple. By showing him/her signs of your desperation, you are indirectly telling him/her that he can get you easily. So if he can get you easily, according to the principle, he will not want you that badly.

In fact, you want to take things easy, especially in front of your ex. You must appear as though it doesn't matter whether your ex is around or not. You can still enjoy life to the fullest. When your ex sees that you are calm and cool, it instantly makes you more attractive. This will help you in getting your ex back.